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There is always a reason why babies are not happening.
There IS no such thing as 'unexplained infertility' - although the causes are not found in orthodox medicine.
The average farmer would know what to do.
Could be that neither of you are really well - and not being well means your sperm and eggs are reflecting this - and why would Nature want to start a mistake? Any health concerns in either of you need resolving so you can make the best baby possible . .
Could be the sperm assessed cynically now as 'good enough' at 3% normal is just not in anyone's language 'OK' for baby making - except as a maybe with ICSI - and is this how you want to start - with the dregs??
Natural medicine looks to nature:
- What should be happening?
- Why is it not happening?
- and then allows the space and conditions for the body to heal itself back to where there needs no other tinkering.
A few decades ago
- Sex made babies
- It was very UNSAFE to have sex unless babies were welcome - as they happened - all without fish oil and ovulation calendars.
- Men were really fertile.
- Women had not used contraception, so their bodies were vastly less imbalanced.
- Modern social poisons (caffeine/alcohol/cigarettes/recreational drugs) were either not there or far too expensive leaving bodies in a pure state to procreate easily.
These days:
- We live in a contaminated environment,
- We marry and settle far later than any other generation,
- Contraception has allowed us extensive ‘play’ time, and the choice to ignore nature, and we ourselves as a result of all of this and the real social changes that have occurred due to this, find ourselves at a point where babies are not expected with unprotected sex, but hoped for.
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What to do?
Infertility is not a disease, but is often treated as though it were a condition separate to the couple’s life and loving environment. It is a consequence of not respecting what is the beginnings of your children's lives - for decades before you want to make them.
What do I mean?
IT IS THE COUPLE WHO ARE NOT GETTING PREGNANT.
Perhaps you forgot it takes TWO to make a baby.
She can't do it without great sperm.
This may have been missed as medicine can not help him - unless it is a surgical fix that is needed. it is usually mostly diet and lifestyle, and without extensive 'research' - funded by drug companies - 'research' = which all farmers have done forever as their livelihoods depend upon it - is unlikely to happen, as modern medicine is working a business model.
Why not?
Need to work this out - otherwise it is just an example of very VERY bad medicine. Working a business, not a healing model. Having VERY regular sexual union – at least every second day, all through the cycle, except when frankly bleeding – is the first step.
1 - SEXUAL FREQUENCY
Holding back till the “fertile” time of the month may be all that is stopping pregnancy from happening - there are many of us who have ‘fallen’, whilst using apparently safe times as a contraceptive. Conception happens within a woman’s body, and randomly occurs – regardless of the male/ rational /medical take to the contrary.
Women's bodies can drop an egg off, whenever. This happens – and if you are for years ensuring days 12- 14 are covered, this may be the only thing that has stopped you being parents. LOOSEN UP!!!
- Waiting for the ‘maybe baby’ apparatus to give a green light is hardly inviting . . .
- There are many reasons why teenagers become easily pregnant – and vibrant good health - bursting out of their skins - and sleeping a lot to regenerate, and frequency are some of them.
- Turn off all the electronic devices – especially the TV, and rediscover each other’s bodies. Pretend the power is off, and bed is the only entertainment . . . .
2 – HE SEES FERTILITY AS A WOMAN'S THING.
No farmer does.
Their whole working lives are about getting great results through breeding programmes - and getting rid of dud studs .. .
Some men say that they are being 'scientific' and don't believe that their sperm (couldn't be them) is an issue.
That they will wait til she is 'fixed'.
Not realising/forgetting that it takes four months for his sperm to start from scratch - so any changes take that long to show up in the results.
Men are not fertile in the mammalian stakes to begin with.
An earlier life of ‘being one of the boys’ with the uni drinking culture, having sexual relations with multiple partners, eating irregularly and drinking heaps of coffee and possibly having a stint of the bong or whatever with marijuana in youthful days are all very good reasons, separately or together why the sperm are now still struggling.
Searching any site that has any of these factors – plus the big one – cigarette smoking – and you will see that there is work to be done - and the woman trying to make up the difference by being super vigilant with herself, is always EVER going to be half the equation.
Then, in addition, we have the general toxicity of our modern environment (try searciong for ‘environmental factors and male fertility”. Look at ‘hormonal disruption’ and you will start to understand why at least taking a range of very good quality supplements; drinking only pure filtered (non chilled) water and cutting all extra contaminants from here on is a smart move.
The keen will consider going organic. At the very least cut out all voluntary chemical fixes and habits.
There specific employment contaminants are in common working environments – solvents, inks, anything with a strong smell – and then there is the HEAT issue – especially if working in a very hot place, and/or sitting down with the groin getting constructed – think all office workers. Add to this, the emanations of the modem, mobile phone and various wireless electronic devices, and the picture gets more sperm unfriendly by the minute.
3 - LOVING ENVIRONMENT. . . . .
This is a novel inclusion in the topic you may think.
Yet – do you both really dance to the same drum?
Are you both equally committed to this marriage/this baby project?
These are searching questions for a reason.
There is an acupuncture line of energy that travels from the heart area to the uterus.
Women are intuitive creatures.
They feel.
They may not be able to verbalize, and you as a man may think it irrational, and silly, yet, one of the special features of a woman is that she is able to drop down into mammalian functioning.
Why have her in the workplace, where this is knocked out of her?
Menstrual ycles not perfect are a warning light going off - please take heed.
The commitment to have a life together and a family is primal.
Respect for her feelings, her sensuality and her womanhood are important considerations.
She is different to a man - that is why you are with her.
WHAT TO DO?
Get a copy of “Getting There” DVD – available here. This will allow you to see the quality issues that men need to address to ensure it is not their sperm that are getting her pregnant, only to have yet another miscarriage as her body does the only sensible thing, and gets rid of a non performing embryo.
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