Welcome to one of my sites.

As the creator of the Gentling Way ,

Working as a natural health care provider/problem solver since 1979.

My passion has always been seemingly ‘hard’ cases.

They never are. Different questions, different perspective – different answers.

Whilst best known for midwiving others out of ‘too hard’:

Be it the passage from infertility to parenthood, from ‘high risk’ pregnancy to easy birthing and maternity, and from diabolical soul, gut, structural and/or gyne or prostatic distress to simple living with grace and ease. My calling has always involved what is deemed by others to be ‘hopeless’. Especially when resolution from suffering – pain on all levels – even continues life is doubtful.

When all else fails – “call Heather” seems to have been the motto. Together we then follow Nature – back through the journey that may have brought you to your knees – out into easy, happy living in your body and your life. Combining my own blend of heartful hands, love of soulful classical acupuncture and all things womb and mother centred had allowed me to work where most cannot. Wanting more – I found Dr Rosita Arvgo’s work in 2014. After my then already 35 years of being a holistic multi modality multi dimensional transformative energy body aligner, this filled in so many gaps for me – professionally and personally. May I suggest that if you have previously ‘given up’, tried ‘everything’  and are STILL stuck, you reach out? I encourage and empower you to love your own body better.

Likely womb positioning restoration/adhesion and scar remediation and a body alignment will assist your return to easy living.

Where WAS I? (After the global silliness in March 2020) Rural West Coast, S.I. NEW ZEALAND

NOW? – Being a nomadic healing soul

From my first clinic in Brisbane city in 1979, setting up and teaching in an acupuncture college from 1981, being always there for the very difficult cases in obstetrics, I retreated home – the NZ back country. My green sanctuary. After consolidating some of my discoveries and writing courses for online learning for all who wish to help themselves I am back to teach and work with my passion – apparently ‘hopeless’ cases.

You will find me here on the Arvigo and the new Abdominal Therapy Collective.

I trained with Dr Rosita Arvigo from 2014 – 2016. I also trained with Dr Jennifer Mercier in at the end of 2016. The combination of my decades of Moving Blockages work, plus the lived experience of being a mother of four (born 1977- 94) being an older woman who has spent decades in service mainly working with women and their trails has meant my unique blend of skills falls into no one category. Whilst known internationally as a pregnancy, fertility specialist acupuncturist – I am a wise woman.

Offering holistic multi modality transformative energy body alignment. My specific viscero-gyne manipulation skills are aided by my understanding of the multiple layers we inhabit concurrently. My Mercier work page is here – ( for men/fertility/prostate normalisation) is here.Why did I travel to St Charles, out of Chicago to learn? Dr Jennifer Mercier has a unique gyno visceral/supplemental system that allows normal natural fertility – IF WE ALSO WOK WITH HIM!!!! and a C section protocol that augments my own.

My Maya healing site is here

I have launched a number of courses for you to help yourself. If you are up for massive shifts – healing is change – I offer intensives. We work in 3 hours – blocks with no more than a week between – and ideally daily. An investment in the rest of your life – we undo as much in a session as is possible – with many ways to radically alter what you thought was ‘your lot’.

I am available to see you on Zoom – I record, add in many links and tips and add to this some of the courses so you can get started, regardless of the local restrictions for you currently have in being a person in these strange times. Better you book a flight to Cairns for winter and see me there. Your new life/body awaits.

About you . .

Looking for answers?
In pain? Suffering? Misery? Trauma ongoing . . .?
All and every level of pain is likely to be the solution to something that is hidden.
It may be that you are told something you do not agree with – to be searching still.
Whether it is you are to be the way you are forever onwards – that you must ‘learn to live with it’: be it in pain and take medications, can’t sleep and the same, depressed – likewise,  infertile, even . .  about to die or anything in between.
Maybe it has all just worn you down . . severe and long standing pain will do that.
Possibly you are on a slew of medications  . . . ..
Feel like you have been everywhere and tried everything?
STILL got what started you down the path of searching? And here you are . .
Let us go down a different path . . . Find out what your body telling you.
When we find that answer – it is likely the ever louder warnings – especially pain – will diminish.

Need some inner help?

We all are congested in the pelvis. We store life residue there – incidents, operations, and falls – all work to reduce the natural flows that allow periods, babies, and Qi (life force) to flow as designed . .

Let us work to undo this to restore your passions .

Mercier? – Dr Jennifer Mercier was stuck in Stage 4 endo and considered ‘infertile’. She developed how to undo this work to naturally conceive her two children. Both C sections – she then undid the inner adhesions and scarring that results.

Want to know more? visit my site: you may enter an entirely new world of structural integrity.
A gyno visceral manipulative therapy that I have added into the womb aligning and structural perfection techniques I have perfected after these decades of assisting people when NOTHING ELSE has. I have taken this so much further and offer you . .
Heather’s Gentling Way.

As a gyno visceral manipulative therapy that I have added into the womb aligning and structural perfection techniques I have perfected after these decades of assisting people when NOTHING ELSE has. I have taken this so much further and offer you . .

Cutting to the chaseARE YOU IN PAIN?

(and level – maybe now heartache/break)

Maybe stop and watch this – you can grab the 2 online courses – and get started  – where ever you are.

I have also spent the last many decades mentoring and discovering what else we all can use to be more practical in sustaining our own and other’s wellness. This has lead me into many amazing adventures . .

Expect me to use my skills as an acupuncturist naturopath, Western and Chinese herbalist, Arvigo/Maya and a Mercier practitioner bringing all into – The Gentling Way. We work together on discovering why your body is stuck – and what has gotten you to where your body needs help to reset itself back to self healing.

Multi modality?

What you may need – all together  . . .

A question .  . .

Can we put you back in alignment?

Structure – determines function

Regardless of what you come in with .. .EVERYTHING – Your belly/ back /pelvis being ‘out’ – may be a simple case of your womb/space that she held/(prostate area if you are a man) – has troubles. The centre of your being – the front of your back – the area the leg circulation travels through – the part that sitting all day congests – where all sexual troubles end – uterine malposition. This makes life tricky.

Periods /fertility/sexuality a bit difficult. Until this is fixed – a twisted pelvis will haunt you. Circulation to your legs and lower body can’t be perfect when your uterus is not in her correct spot. More on this to be explored – here (Maya healing) and here (Heather’s Genting Ways).

How I work .  ./what to expect

Sessions typically last at least 2 usually 3 hours. Anything less and I would be only playing. Yes – I can give a short session and as a pain specialist from decades ago – that is simple – but setting you up to NOT have pain return may be a longer process – and where I choose to work..
Hence the intensives. Close together and with a minimum of tome between session ideally – no more than a week apart and often a lot less.


Gives the body less to time to return to habits.
There is so much to undo in any body. You know this.
Please allow time to actually heal.
Skimming the top and hoping for the best is not what we do here.
We ensure it happens . .
Having you come back again and again is not how I work.
Initially a session may (when on an intensive) last at least 3 hours – sometimes 4+ hours.
6 of these and it is highly likely that your body unlocks itself.
Structurally we MUST clear what is holding you hostage.  Your past is locked into pain.
By two sessions, you will feel vastly different.
You will likely wish to complete the process – (at least 6 sessions) aligning ALL of yourself.
What to expect . .
Working intensively this happens.

I provide online courses to also to allow you to TAKE CHARGE yourself

In the past people came as they felt to/wanted to come.
one session at a time.
But now – by the time you are thinking of seeing me usually things are desperate and all else has failed.
Especially if you have now a ‘diagnosis’ It did not just happen – but was percolating for some time.

You WILL need to change
Sometimes everything

You may not feeling the best you . .
Know that things were better than now
Know that no one so far has put a finger on what is going on . .


Crone/wise woman alert.
For my own professional well being
Normal ill health from normal (actual) vaccines I can, and have always worked around.
This brand new business opportunity masquerading as a health measure comes with no precedence, no long term animal, let alone human trials – with or without benign placebo – and no responsibility – outside your own.
I will not put myself in harm’s way.
Liability is of huge concern – esp as the manufacturers and distributors have none. As I aim to move blockages to flow, I may well initiate something unintended (and am tasked with returning body to homeostasis – maybe you are now in your own category, to never, ever be as the grid/map was designed to be.
As natural herbals and supplements enhance movement,
I have no idea what may happen when I do whatever used to work. With sovereign living entities – I have 42 years experience.
G.E. humans? No idea.
My work aims to restore normal.
If you have been jabbed – something that you may not have again.
Whilst no one knows what will happen, it is human nature to blame another. A risk I do not need.
Consciously agreeing to this biologic warfare is outside my understanding. Possibly due to my life experience –
I completely wrecked my children by being compliant.
And that was my way – I vaccinated them to a heavily reduced schedule.
Hence, I am not about to potentially do more damage to you by enhancing optimal body functions.
First Do No Harm.
I still live by this.

Ask yourself  have I had enough yet?

Let’s find out together what is holding YOUR life flows back.

What am I offering?

My + 40 years of life and professional experience – in helping those who have no hope.
A unique blend of what works.
In sequence individually crafted for you.
A combination of hands-on subtle, yet thorough ways to soothe and realign you.
Always within the gentle realms of allowing the body to heal itself.
On all levels . . .
  • Soul
  • Emotional
  • Physical

Are we a good fit?


I am a Holistic
Multi modality
Body aligner
In a session I will choose for you what I feel best suits you – as there is so much that we all carry around as ‘baggage’ and sometimes it is time to let it go.


I am also a Common Sense Health Consultant

Gentling Ways – this is a off spin in addition to the pelvic work I started decades ago and published through the ‘What Dads Can Do’ manuals and DVD’s online available (and use yourself (for anyone) the moxa sacral fan) at home – and the specific pelvic clearing.

Start with your centre – is it in the centre?
This will fix what is ailing you – likely a uterus (or prostate) in misalignment – and whether or not they are removed – the ligaments are no longer doing what they are to do – and there you are – in constant pain to be adjusted constantly

Women’s Health

Your womb/space needs to be in your centre . . and if now missing where she was is paramount to be undone .. Adhesions/scars/distressed bodies can be taken back to their original settings . .

Do expect ‘miracles’.
After working with a sense of humour and intending to NOT take “can’t” for an answer – I expect them before you leave me – to at least feel so much lighter and freer! (And your pain free/substantially reduced).

Structural especially – that back no one can fix?
Probably your misplaced uterus – even if she is gone – the ligaments and meridians hold the memories. .
YOUR miracles  are waiting – we just need to set them in motion for you.
Happens all day in my clinic . .

What you may expect – so many do . .

Often there are sensible solutions for the problems no-one else has been able to find answers for/’fix’

Perhaps we just need to take out what was not supposed to be there, and put more in of what should.

Steps: ALIGN

Let’s start with Structure determines function:

and get away from the ongoing ‘work’ it seems to be to keep your body aligned.
invest in your health and future . .

Get your circulation going again – then there will be no pain.

Clean out what is not supposed to be in your body:

1 – Cold

2 – Chemicals

Often it is as simple as having more of what nourishes us on board and less of what does not.

More exercise and warmth – and no ice – ever!!!!

Why no ice?

It stops the circulation – which needs to be BETTER when in pain to get the oxygen and blood there to heal – and the rubbish away fast. See more here

Told you have fibromyalgia?
As usual – a combination of not enough quality nutrients and not in alignment sets you up for everyone trying to FIX what is the result of essentially malnutrition and lack of movement.


Often health return and comfort is as simple as working on old scars.

This may seem a strange idea. Meridians – lies of flow – and the adhesions that glue you up
You may know you hate being touched there. . ..

or that you haven’t felt the same since . . . or that the scar is actually a problem.

Why not come and get it aligned with your energy again?

Meridians (lines) of energy traverse the body – and when these are interfered with – through accidents and operations – often function and of course local feeling is altered. 

After I have woven my magic and you get off the couch –

You WILL feel taller


Any health queries

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Align Your Life!